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01/23/05 20:21 Sharon writes...
To Lovedad,
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, it is frustrating when someone just doesn't get it. You have to learn one thing though. Neither you or your Aunt can get him sober. He and God are the only ones who can. Sad too, is that he may never get it. The absolute best suggestion that I can give you and many others I am sure will agree is that you, and your aunt look online under Alanon and find the nearest meeting and start going. In there you will find comfort with others who are in the same boat as you are. I know it is tough on you, the kids, and your dad to not let them be around him when he is drinking but you are doing what is absolutely right. If the children are older they will understand, and if very young then it may be necessary to say Grandpa is sick today which is not a lie at all. Good luck and God Bless all of you.
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01/17/05 11:47 CJ writes...
Just found this site and wondering if it is even active? Not a memeber yet, but the possibilities are endless. Located in SJ,CA. Anybody out there?
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01/09/05 22:26 Hammy writes...
Is anyone signed up for the chat room? Please let me know!
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01/08/05 01:46 lovedad writes...
I'm at my wits end! I've had my Dad in and out of the hospital since after Christmas. He drinks, still, even after the Librium! I'm trying to get him to understand what me and my Aunt's are trying to do, but he's just not getting it. He has a BIG heart and would do anything for anyone, but himself (evidently). I know you the people here are, and have been sober, but if there's anyone out there who can help, PLEASE! He'll be 62 at the end of February. He really needs someone to talk to. I'm married, work full time and have 3 kids (and live 45 minutes from him). I try to get over there when I can, but it's not easy. If he's been drinking, I don't like to take the kids over. We had a big blowout tonight and I'm here because I don't know where else to go. Any suggestions?!!!!
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01/04/05 12:03 PIRATE writes...
ANY CUTE SOBER GIRLS FROM SAN DIEGO?IM SOBER 10 YEARS AND LOOKIN FOR RIDIN PARTNERS GOD BLESS AND HAVE A ROCKIN 2005!
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01/01/05 18:17 prairiewoman writes...
Hello,from Dakota. I have been sober for 19 years,widowed for 4 years, I am looking for a traveling companion, friend and lover who is a FRIEND of Bill W. and the program.
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12/29/04 22:14 Hammy writes...
Hello from Nashville!! I just signed up on this site. It is nice to have another avenue to meet other Bill W. friends!! I'm intereseted in getting to know a female AA with quality sobriety
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12/27/04 13:57 Roxie55 writes...
I've been on more than a few sites "looking". Still no luck. This my last one. Maybe I suppose to just be for a while. I've been sober since 1987 and I would love to meet someone to share some of my good fortune. I'm sucessful in business and now I would like to be sucessful in love. I love myself very much and I know when it's my time,my HP will provide me with what I need. I have some things to learn about male/female relationships and look forward to what the right man has to offer.
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12/27/04 12:35 harleyholly writes...
Hi and Happy New yr to all hope its sober.............not member yet.so send me message.SWF in Ca looking for SWM with empty Harley seat............to enjoy life....Rule 62
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12/23/04 22:06 Matt writes...
What's up every1? Fantastic site to come across. Sober since 11/10/03 and very committed to it. Looking for a female who's interested in developing a serious relationship. Not a member yet so send me a message I guess.
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12/23/04 21:43 sassy writes...
Hi everyone I am new to this site and really am excited about it.I would love to hear and meet new friends I have a few 24 hours but a new one on the internet I am in Ohio but would love to chat with everyone :)
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12/22/04 20:59 Mark writes...
What a great site this is for people in recovery. It's nice to finally find a site like this. I have visited other sites and they are not as hot as this one to recieve mail.
signed...mcp1024.
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